ljg-relationship

Apply a five-layer framework with psychoanalytic insights to diagnose relationship dynamics.

Updated Jan 25, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/xfs96192/claude-config --skill ljg-relationship
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent
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Skill: ljg-relationship
Source: https://github.com/xfs96192/claude-config/tree/main/skills/ljg-relationship
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/xfs96192/claude-config --skill ljg-relationship

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

What problem does it solve?

This skill helps users see the hidden dynamics driving relationship conflicts, beyond surface arguments, so they can understand the underlying structure rather than rely on quick fixes.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Five-layer relational analysis (exchange, power, boundaries, stage, and narrative) combined with psychoanalytic perspectives to surface patterns.
  • Guided dialogue that focuses on questions rather than giving direct advice, helping users articulate what they notice and feel.
  • Use Case: Suitable for work, family, romantic, and friendship relationships to diagnose recurring issues and improve communication.

Quick Start

Describe a recent relationship conflict in concrete detail and ask the assistant to reveal the underlying structure and patterns.

Frequently Asked Questions about ljg-relationship

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I analyze the hidden structure of a relationship conflict?

To analyze relationship structure, describe a recent conflict in concrete detail. A five-layer relational framework combined with psychoanalytic insights then surfaces underlying patterns, power dynamics, and boundary issues beyond surface arguments.

What is the best way to diagnose recurring relationship patterns?

Diagnosing relationship patterns involves guided dialogue that asks targeted questions rather than giving direct advice. This helps articulate noticed dynamics across exchange, power, boundaries, stage, and narrative layers to reveal structural issues.

Can I use psychoanalytic insights to improve communication in my family or workplace?

Psychoanalytic insights apply effectively to family, romantic, workplace, and friendship relationships. The dialogue process identifies recurring conflicts and boundary issues, generating structured diagnostic notes to guide communication improvements.

How does a relational framework visualize relationship dynamics?

A relational framework visualizes dynamics by generating ASCII relationship diagrams. These diagrams map the underlying structure of interactions, making hidden power moves and boundary patterns visible alongside structured diagnostic notes.

Why do I keep having the same arguments in my relationship and how can I understand them better?

Recurring arguments happen because hidden relationship dynamics drive conflicts beyond surface issues. Applying a five-layer structural analysis reveals these underlying patterns, helping you understand the root causes instead of relying on quick fixes.