running-effective-11s

Guide managers in conducting effective one-on-one meetings with structured coaching frameworks.

5|Updated Jan 19, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/oldwinter/skills --skill running-effective-11s
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agentโ–ผ
Please help me install this Agent Skill.
Skill: running-effective-11s
Source: https://github.com/oldwinter/skills/tree/main/lenny-skills/leadership-skills/running-effective-11s
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/oldwinter/skills --skill running-effective-11s

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

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What problem does it solve?

This Skill addresses the common issue of one-on-one meetings becoming unproductive status updates rather than opportunities for coaching, trust-building, and accountability.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Coaching Focus: Shifts the manager's role from advising to coaching, empowering direct reports.
  • Structured Frameworks: Utilizes models like GROW for problem-solving and Level 3 listening for deeper understanding.
  • Career Development: Integrates dedicated time for career growth conversations.
  • Feedback Mechanism: Encourages soliciting and acting on self-criticism.
  • Well-being Check: Includes checking on employee joy and recovery to prevent burnout.
  • Use Case: A manager can use this skill to transform their weekly 1:1s from simple check-ins into powerful sessions that foster employee growth and proactively address challenges.

Quick Start

Help me run an effective one-on-one meeting with my direct report, focusing on coaching and their development.

Frequently Asked Questions about running-effective-11s

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

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How do I make one-on-one meetings more effective for coaching and career development?โ–ผ

To run effective 1-on-1s, shift from status updates to coaching by using the GROW model for problem-solving and Level 3 listening to build trust. This approach empowers direct reports, fosters accountability, and integrates dedicated time for career development conversations.

What is the GROW model and how does it apply to 1-on-1 meetings?โ–ผ

The GROW model is a structured problem-solving framework used in 1-on-1 meetings to guide coaching conversations. It helps managers shift from advising to empowering direct reports by structuring goal-setting and action plans, fostering accountability and career development during sessions.

How can I prevent employee burnout during weekly one-on-ones?โ–ผ

Prevent employee burnout during 1-on-1s by incorporating well-being checks that assess employee joy and recovery. Alongside soliciting self-criticism and discussing performance, this proactive approach ensures direct reports feel supported and prevents chronic workplace stress.

How do I solicit self-criticism from direct reports in a 1-on-1?โ–ผ

Solicit self-criticism in a 1-on-1 by creating a trust-based environment using Level 3 listening. Encourage direct reports to evaluate their own performance openly, which enhances coaching quality and fosters accountability rather than simply providing top-down feedback.

What is the best way to transition 1-on-1s from status updates to trust-building sessions?โ–ผ

The best way to transition 1-on-1s into trust-building sessions is to adopt a coaching focus using structured techniques. Utilize Level 3 listening for deeper understanding, integrate career development discussions, and use the GROW model to empower direct reports instead of just exchanging status updates.