What problem does it solve?
This Skill helps engineering managers persuade stakeholders, neutralize resistance, and secure approvals or resources when they lack direct authority.
Core Features & Use Cases
- Tactical influence methods: Nemawashi for pre-aligning stakeholders, Decoy Pricing for structured asks (including headcount), Reverse Psychology for pull-based hiring conversations, and LMDTFY for upward delegation and trust-building.
- Resistance-handling conversation techniques: Label the Concern to disarm objections early, and Get to "That's Right" to achieve genuine agreement through precise reflection.
- Headcount and positioning frameworks: A layered approach to arguing for headcount (alignment on problem → approach → team execution → then people) and a 3-level model for visibility/trust (Known → Appreciated → Trusted).
- Practical politics and relationship modes: Politics as a neutral skill, plus Giver / Matcher / Taker guidance to choose the right collaboration posture.
- Use Case: Prepare a headcount request that has a stakeholder-specific message, anticipates objections, and lands on the right decision layer with a clear plan and risks.
Quick Start
Ask the influence skill to build a stakeholder plan and a ready-to-send script for your upcoming buy-in conversation.