ljg-relationship

Analyze relationship conflicts and recurring interpersonal patterns with structural assessment.

Updated Mar 29, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills --skill ljg-relationship-zizhenchen47-oss
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent
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Skill: ljg-relationship
Source: https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills/tree/main/ljg-relationship
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills --skill ljg-relationship-zizhenchen47-oss

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

What problem does it solve?

This Skill helps users understand why a relationship feels stuck, tense, or repetitive by separating surface conflict from deeper structure and recurring patterns.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Structural diagnosis: Examines exchange, power, boundary, stage, and narrative layers to locate where a relationship is breaking down.
  • Pattern detection: Looks for repeated scripts, transference-like reactions, resistance, and unconscious repetitions across different relationships.
  • Guided dialogue: Uses careful questioning and reflective mirroring to help users describe one concrete scene, then gradually reveal the underlying dynamic.
  • Diagnostic output: Summarizes findings as a relationship structure map with a core insight and a question the user can keep thinking about.
  • Use case: Helpful when someone wants to understand conflict with a boss, partner, parent, teammate, or friend instead of receiving direct advice.

Quick Start

Use the ljg-relationship skill to help me analyze my current relationship problem, identify the structural and repeating patterns behind it, and summarize the result as a clear relationship map.

Frequently Asked Questions about ljg-relationship

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I analyze the hidden structure behind a recurring relationship conflict?

Relationship analysis examines exchange, power, boundary, stage, and narrative layers to locate where dynamics break down. This structural diagnosis separates surface tension from deeper repeating patterns to produce a clear relationship map.

What causes power imbalance and repeated relational loops in interpersonal dynamics?

Repeated relational loops stem from unconscious scripts, transference-like reactions, and resistance across interactions. Pattern detection traces these psychological repetitions by having you describe one concrete scene, then gradually revealing the underlying dynamic driving the tension.

Can I use relationship analysis for work conflicts with a boss or teammate?

Relationship analysis applies to work, family, romantic, and friendship dynamics. It is suited for understanding tension, power imbalance, and boundary problems with a boss, partner, parent, teammate, or friend when you need structural insight instead of direct advice.

How do I identify boundary problems and transference patterns in my relationships?

Identifying boundary problems and transference patterns uses staged questioning and reflective mirroring. You describe a specific conflict scene, and guided dialogue gradually uncovers transference-like reactions and resistance markers, mapping them onto a five-layer structural assessment.

What is the best way to understand relationship tension without receiving direct advice?

The best way to understand relationship tension without direct advice is diagnostic dialogue. Guided questioning helps you articulate a concrete scene, yielding a relationship structure map with a core insight and a reflective question to keep thinking about.