What problem does it solve?
This Skill helps users understand why a relationship feels stuck, tense, or repetitive by separating surface conflict from deeper structure and recurring patterns.
Core Features & Use Cases
- Structural diagnosis: Examines exchange, power, boundary, stage, and narrative layers to locate where a relationship is breaking down.
- Pattern detection: Looks for repeated scripts, transference-like reactions, resistance, and unconscious repetitions across different relationships.
- Guided dialogue: Uses careful questioning and reflective mirroring to help users describe one concrete scene, then gradually reveal the underlying dynamic.
- Diagnostic output: Summarizes findings as a relationship structure map with a core insight and a question the user can keep thinking about.
- Use case: Helpful when someone wants to understand conflict with a boss, partner, parent, teammate, or friend instead of receiving direct advice.
Quick Start
Use the ljg-relationship skill to help me analyze my current relationship problem, identify the structural and repeating patterns behind it, and summarize the result as a clear relationship map.