ljg-relationship

Diagnose relationship dynamics with a five-layer framework and ASCII diagrams.

Updated Jul 11, 2022
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/zhengfran/dotconfig --skill ljg-relationship-zhengfran
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent
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Skill: ljg-relationship
Source: https://github.com/zhengfran/dotconfig/tree/main/tools/ai/agents/skills/ljg-relationship
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/zhengfran/dotconfig --skill ljg-relationship-zhengfran

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

What problem does it solve?

It helps you understand why a relationship keeps getting stuck by turning a confusing dynamic into a clear structure, and then probing deeper repeating patterns behind your reactions.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Structural diagnostics (5-layer framework): Guides you through exchange, power, boundaries, stages, and narrative to locate the most likely “mechanism layer” of the problem.
  • Pattern/psychodynamic probing (when repetition appears): When the same theme repeats, it explores “familiar-feeling” reactions, earlier origins, and where resistance shows up.
  • No-advice, question-led reflection: Keeps the interaction focused on questions and mirroring so the user can discover what they’re not seeing.

Use Case Examples

  • When someone says “关系分析 / relationship / 人际关系”,and wants to understand a specific relationship problem (e.g., tension with a boss, conflict with a partner).
  • When the user notices the conflict is repeating across different people or situations, triggering a deeper pattern search.

Quick Start

Ask the assistant to analyze your relationship by saying: “ljg-relationship: 我和我的____最近很紧张,我想搞清楚为什么我们总会走到这一步。”

Frequently Asked Questions about ljg-relationship

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I analyze why a relationship keeps having the same repeated conflicts?

Relationship analysis diagnoses repeated conflicts using a five-layer framework covering exchange, power, boundaries, stages, and narrative. It locates the specific structural mechanism causing the tension and maps the repeating psychodynamic pattern behind your reactions.

What is structural diagnosis in interpersonal relationship dynamics?

Structural diagnosis in interpersonal dynamics maps relationship tension across five layers: exchange, power, boundaries, stages, and narrative. It identifies the primary mechanism layer driving the conflict and outputs an ASCII relationship structure diagram to visualize the problem.

Can I use this relationship analysis for workplace tension and family conflicts?

Relationship analysis applies to tension, repeated conflicts, and recurring scenarios across work, intimacy, family, and friendship contexts. It adapts its structural diagnosis to map the specific power imbalances and boundary issues present in any interpersonal dynamic.

How do I start a dialogue to diagnose a relationship problem?

To start diagnosing a relationship problem, initiate a question-led dialogue by stating the specific tension, such as 'I am very tense with my partner and want to figure out why.' The analysis mirrors your content and guides you through the structural layers.

Does relationship analysis provide direct advice on how to fix conflicts?

Relationship analysis uses a no-advice, question-led reflection approach instead of providing direct fixes. It focuses on mirroring user content and asking probing questions so you can discover the psychodynamic patterns and resistance signals you are not seeing.

What happens when the same conflict pattern repeats across different people?

When a conflict pattern repeats across different people, the analysis triggers a deeper psychodynamic probe. It explores familiar-feeling reactions, earlier origins of the pattern, and where resistance shows up, integrating these insights into the final structural diagnosis.