mj-relationship

Diagnose root causes of recurring relationship conflicts with structural and pattern analysis.

Updated May 30, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/RockerMJ031/mj-claude-skills --skill mj-relationship
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent
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Skill: mj-relationship
Source: https://github.com/RockerMJ031/mj-claude-skills/tree/main/mj-relationship
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/RockerMJ031/mj-claude-skills --skill mj-relationship

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

What problem does it solve?

This Skill helps users stuck in recurring relationship conflicts—whether with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague—identify the root causes of tension they cannot see on their own. It distinguishes between structural issues in the relationship itself (like power imbalances or mismatched expectations) and unconscious patterns the user repeats across different relationships, eliminating guesswork about why the same problems keep happening.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Dual diagnostic framework: Combines a 5-layer structural analysis (covering exchange, power, boundaries, relationship stage, and shared narrative) with psychoanalytic pattern detection (transference, unconscious repetitions, resistance) to cover both relationship-specific and cross-relationship issues.
  • Guided non-advisory dialogue: Uses targeted questions and reflective prompts instead of giving advice, helping users surface hidden dynamics and blind spots on their own.
  • Lark document integration: Automatically writes full analysis results to a shared Lark Wiki folder for easy reference and tracking over time.
  • Use case: If you keep having the same argument with your business partner about who makes final decisions, this Skill will help you determine if the root cause is a power imbalance, mismatched contribution exchange, or an unconscious pattern you repeat from earlier authority relationships.

Quick Start

Use the mj-relationship skill to analyze the recurring conflict you have with your manager about project ownership and decision-making authority.

Frequently Asked Questions about mj-relationship

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

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How do I find the root cause of recurring relationship conflicts?

To find the root cause of recurring relationship conflicts, you need dual analysis that distinguishes structural relationship dynamics like power imbalances from unconscious behavioral patterns you repeat across different relationships.

What is structural relationship analysis and how does it work?

Structural relationship analysis examines five layers—exchange, power, boundaries, relationship stage, and shared narrative—to identify relationship-specific issues causing persistent tension, distinguishing them from cross-relationship psychoanalytic patterns like transference and unconscious repetitions.

Can I use guided dialogue to analyze interpersonal conflicts without receiving direct advice?

Yes, you can use guided non-advisory dialogue to analyze interpersonal conflicts, utilizing targeted questions and reflective prompts to surface hidden dynamics and blind spots independently instead of receiving direct advice.

Does relationship conflict analysis support integration with Lark documents?

Yes, relationship conflict analysis supports Lark document integration by automatically writing full diagnostic outputs, including ASCII relationship structure visualizations, to a shared Lark Wiki folder for persistent record-keeping and tracking over time.

When should I use psychoanalytic pattern detection for workplace tensions?

You should use psychoanalytic pattern detection for workplace tensions when you experience persistent negative interaction cycles with colleagues or managers that cannot be resolved independently and may stem from unconscious repeated behavioral patterns originating in earlier authority relationships.