relationship-coach

Guide couples through attachment-aware repair and conflict resolution sessions.

1|1|Updated Mar 29, 2026
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npx skills add https://github.com/yuyuxinli/moodcoco --skill relationship-coach
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Skill: relationship-coach
Source: https://github.com/yuyuxinli/moodcoco/tree/main/industry-skills/relationship-coach
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/yuyuxinli/moodcoco --skill relationship-coach

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

💡 This Skill includes references (resource) components.

What problem does it solve?

Helps partners stuck in recurring conflict, emotional distance, or ruptures by guiding them through attachment-aware repair, parts work, and structured reconnection. It reduces escalation, clarifies underlying fears, and translates reactive patterns into actionable steps couples can practice together.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Framework synthesis: Combines IFS, Emotionally Focused Therapy (Hold Me Tight), and practical communication tools to diagnose patterns and guide interventions.
  • Routing & references: Directs sessions to repair, demon-dialogue interruption, reconnection, forgiveness, grounding, or communication prep using curated reference processes.
  • Session learning & profiles: Uses per-couple profiles, dynamic notes, and an end-of-session learning check to update hypotheses and preserve privacy.
  • Use case: A partner messages mid-fight; the coach triages activation, runs grounding or parts work, leads a repair conversation, and updates profiles with new triggers or golden practices.

Quick Start

Say: I need help repairing and reconnecting with my partner after a recent fight.

Frequently Asked Questions about relationship-coach

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I repair a relationship after a recent fight?

To repair a relationship after a recent fight, this coach guides couples through attachment-aware repair processes, clarifying underlying fears and translating reactive arguments into actionable steps to practice together.

What is the best way to stop recurring arguments with my partner?

The best way to stop recurring arguments is interrupting the demon-dialogue using Emotionally Focused Therapy and IFS frameworks to diagnose negative patterns and lead structured reconnection conversations.

How does couples coaching work for emotional reconnection?

Couples coaching for emotional reconnection works by routing sessions through grounding, parts work, and forgiveness reference processes, then updating per-couple profiles with new triggers and practices.

Can I use this to prepare for a difficult conversation with my partner?

Yes, you can use this coach to prepare for a difficult conversation by accessing curated communication prep reference processes that help structure your dialogue and reduce escalation.

Do I need guided prompts for relationship conflict resolution?

Yes, you need guided prompts for relationship conflict resolution because the coach requires them to triage activation, run parts work, and lead structured repair conversations effectively.

Why does couples coaching use Emotionally Focused Therapy and IFS?

Couples coaching uses Emotionally Focused Therapy and IFS because synthesizing these frameworks helps diagnose reactive patterns, clarify underlying fears, and guide targeted attachment-aware interventions.